The curiosity of my partner unlocked my pleasure

I felt seen, heard and truly appreciated. Somehow that is when I allowed myself to discover the deep meaning of pleasure.

It looked unrealistic to me to allow myself to be triggered so deeply by one person I knew it would have not been available for me for a long relationship. It was unexpected and surprisingly emotional.

It may sound like a movie scene but in reality the attention was not on performance or stereotyped sexy confersations. I have been working with my coach for several sessions about allowing myself to unlock my curiosity and I could not fully relax to this idea until I met this person. His curiosity and bizarre questions helped me to open up little by little and let my shyness fade away little by little.

And when we started to spend the night together we builded emotional intimacy. It was in those moments of vulnerability, of raw honesty, that our connection deepened and I allowed myself to explore my pleasure through this person. Every question he was asking became for me an opportunity to first answer to myself and enjoy the honesty I reached about my body and pleasure even when my inner answer was "I don't know how my body would react to that".

I am not sure how I could help others experiencing a similar fun joy, surely it is not something I could have done with everyone but I agree with my coach that allowing myself to visualise my needs and talk about them I probably attracted the right person.